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Flirting Tips For Men: Touch

As you may know, one of the most important things to a woman is how you make her feel both emotionally and physically.

If you can make a woman feel aroused by your touch, then she will see you as someone who makes her feel physically aroused and thus consider you as a potential lover. However, if you are too afraid to touch a woman in a flirting way, then she will often see you as "Just a friend".

The reality is that - as long as you have sparked attraction - a woman will appreciate your touch and won't see you as a sleazy pervert who just wants to 'feel her up' or 'get lucky.' Here are some tested examples to get you started.

Put Your Arm Around Her Waist: If a woman makes a joke or says something cool, be comfortable enough to put your arm around her waist and draw her closer to you while smiling/laughing.

Assume that the right amount of rapport and attraction is there to do this, even if you've only known her for a few seconds. Note: Don't overdo this move. A couple of times in an interaction is plenty.

Fondle Her Earrings or Necklace: In the midst of talking about something, be comfortable enough to reach straight up and fondle a woman's earrings while making a comment on how you like them.

Don't hesitate, don't get nervous and don't use apologetic body language when you do this. Do it as her father would do and make her feel like your little girl. Brush her hair back a little and make gentle contact with the side of her neck and ear.

You will be amazed at how women respond to this. When you do it, notice how a woman will automatically assume more submissive body language and behavior around you for a few moments.

Note: This whole process of fondling her earrings or necklace should only last a few seconds. Don't linger there too long, or she will pull away.

Give Her Chin a Little Squeeze and Gentle 'Shake': If a woman says something cute or submissive, look her in the eye, grin and gently grab her on the chin. Give it a little squeeze and shake like her father would have when she was a good girl.

Don't do this with the sweaty palms of your hands! Just use your thumb and the length of your pointer finger. Note: This should only be done when you have sparked strong attraction and have started to connect with her.

Play Slapsies: Play hand slaps (slapsies)! This is the game where one person holds out their hands with palms facing horizontally to the floor and beneath the other person's hands. The person on top then tries to slap your hands before you get them away.

It's a fun little game and it helps to build fun and positive tension.

Break-Up Hug and Kiss: When a woman says something silly or stupid, reply with something like, "Look, this relationship isn't going to work out. We're going to have to break up. I'm taking the house and the dog. Come here, give me a hug goodbye."

Be playful when you do something like this. It's fun, especially when you've only known each other for a few seconds/minutes. Get her to kiss you goodbye on the cheek by pointing your finger to your cheek and saying, "Here!"

Hug For a Random Reason: If a woman is complaining and playfully seeking pity, give her an "Awwww" hug. If a woman tells you it's her birthday, give her a birthday hug.

Push Her Away: If a woman says something silly or flirtatious, every once in a while you can playfully push her away with your hands. Shake your head, shrug your mouth and pretend as though you are ashamed of her.

Smell My New Aftershave: Point to your neck and say something like "Hey, smell my new aftershave. What do you think?"

When she has finished, ask, "So, do you wear nice perfume?" and then lean in and smell her neck without asking if you can.

Just brush her hair away from her neck and hold her in some way (arm around the waist, hand on bottom of back, etc).

So, there you have it. You've just read some highly-tested flirting tips for men, which focus around the subject of 'touch'. As I said early on in the article, be sure that you have attracted a woman before trying any of the techniques. If you haven't, you may be rejected.